12 years 🙌🏼

Had my poly mates over for dinner last night and we had a blast!!

I grabbed home from ahlao’s place (thanks to 30% off hitch, it was only $9.8 lol) & did nothing but wait for my RedMart to arrive.

Online grocery shopping is so convenient la!! Unlocked free delivery cos I ordered fud for an army so obviously we hit $100 pretty easily hahaha.

I ordered once from honestbee and the quality was shit la. They sent me ROTTEN BERRIES can you believe it. Zzz. Just because it’s a delivery 😒

I was indeed lazy to head down to the store to do a swop la (if not I order online for what right) so I had to throw some of them out. But what a disappointment.

I didn’t have high expectations for RedMart but the quality of yesterday’s fud was damn bagus!! Somemore I ordered a lot of fresh stuff like spinach, tang oh, spring onion etc. 👍🏼👍🏼

My poly classmate is working for some beer company rn and he sent over 48 bottles of Peroni for us wewwww!! 🍻

It was such a great night with old friends, lots of gud fud & laughter 😁😁

Adler did his accent imitation and that left us in fits lol. Too bad I can’t share the full version oopsie but zomg. Legit laugh until pain.

Banluck-ed the night away & I won money whee! 🤩

✨

Do not settle for less.

Ahlao doesn’t know

Ok hi everyone!

First, here’s a super cute vid of my Gooby 🐶

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Since my ahlao doesn’t know I’m writing here yet, I shall use this chance to document my excitement rn 😁

Anw 人日快乐 everyone! 🙆🏻‍♀️

So after dinner just now, I was chilling with my sisters at home. We were talking about dayre lol, and I was writing my last post. Exported my stuff here, and I suddenly felt like heading to ahlao’s place to surprise him hehe 🤗

His work ends late today, probably after 2am. And since we are heading out tmr morning for an errand tgt, might as well I go over now so we can leave home tgt right! Genius me 🤩

So I took the last train at about 11pm+, texted jiejie to open door for me later when I reach. Love is when I haven’t even reached, jiejie alr turned on the aircon in the room for me 💕 Lol is it know I 怕热 😅

So anyways, I’m lying in our big bed all alone now, and Ahlao has no idea I’m here hehehe. Can’t wait to see his reaction later! Hope I don’t 反效果 and give him a scare at 3am though 😆

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And.. I’m kind of getting the hang of writing here on WP! But I feel a bit handicapped without the stickers 😅 but ya, HI EVERYONE! 💓

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Good morning guys!

My ahlao came back home at 4am (!!!) and I had already concussed for quite some time despite trying to stay awake to surprise him. Plan iz failz lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

But I think he had a bigger shock finding a motionless pig body in his bed HAHAHA 😂

Hi🤗🤗

We dropped by the Bosch Experience Centre just now to finalise some of the deets for our appliances selection. I am so absolutely eggcited for #SungHouse already la!! 😁

Had a quick lunch nearby since we were starving from not taking breakfast lolol 😅

It was really nice having lunch with ahlao on a weekday! We ate at this food court called District 20 and from this stall called Sea Salt.

Ahlao had the fish and chips ($7) while I had the lunch promo of fish & mushroom herb rice ($6.5). I was really quite eggcited to try to mushroom rice but WTFBBQ they loaded it with minced coriander!! 🤢🤢

It was such a total nightmare zomg 😭 I took a bite and I freaking knew it. But thankfully it wasn’t too strong despite the scary amount of coriander I can see in the rice, so I just added lots of chilli & tartar sauce to mask the taste 😩

Towards the end I really bth so I donated my rice to ahlao. Legit keep gagging please zzz. I know it’s a psychological thing but I just kent.

WASTE MY CALORIES SIA 😒

After lunch, I wanted to take a bus back to shop since I had a straight bus but bez ahlao on earth refused to lemme leave him so he drove me to work instead 😅🤗

Really thankful for ahpei being so sweet; with him around I always feel very taken care of! Very spoilt too 😬

But then again, 老婆就是娶来疼的 ma right 🤩

#HIMMH ❤️ + Our Solemnisation Party ✨

Alright, here comes my
final post on Dayre.. 😌

I started this journey on Dayre from the very first day, not knowing how my life would actually change so much. But it did ✨

In all sorts of ways.

My business grew, I learnt new things, I shared my passion, I expressed unpopular opinions, I forged real friendships, I found love.. 💕

Dayre was a platform & community that I turned to, to share my anxieties of meeting someone new (actually my first time ever meeting ANY BOY lol), express my insecurities, to document the beautiful moments of a first love, to sharing my joy of marrying that first love 😂

You guys were at every part of
my significant milestones!

Like a fairytale (if I may say so HAHA), I would like my journey here to end with a beautiful 结局 💕

I’m finally sharing the official pics from our solemnisation party 😌

But lemme start with a little background story about how we met! I know many of you have been waiting for me to talk about this for the longest time.

Thank you for being so patient! 🤗

#HIMMH

I met ahlao on Tinder!

Coincidentally, 23 Feb was also the day Ahpei gave me his phone number so we could whatsapp LOL.

We talked 24/7 (like legit from early morning to past midnight kind) for a whole week & he NEVER asked for my name and still refused to ask for my number this zbj lolol so I had to put aside my girl pride & HINT-ASK FOR HIS NUMBER INSTEAD 🤣🤣

Come to think of it, HE DIDN’T EVEN SAY HELLO!!

So rude one ah this boy. Straight away want to find out if your future wife can cook is it 😂

VERY MAFAN TO TALK TO ME SIA 😅

ADD ME BA LEH.

So anyways, we talked on WhatsApp for MORE THAN A MONTH and there was no advancement lolol. Our conversations advanced so much – we talked about our work, passions, dreams, even our families.. we even learnt each other’s birthdays and where we lived lol.

I was so troubled I kept asking my sisters if this dude is just using me to pass time or cure boredom since he’s not keen to meet up at all! But this one I die also don’t want to ask first la so paiseh right!!! 😆

AND THEN THE DAY FINALLY CAME:

He finally asked me out!! 😅

Wang Wang was some inside joke thing cos I lost a bet (he guessed my birthday correctly!) and had to buy him Wang Wang but he never came to ‘redeem’ it from me.

Like hello I buy the 车票 for so long alr why you no 上车 ahlao!! 😁😁

My shop was still at Bukit Timah at that time and I loved walking home from shop so that was my usual Sunday activity lolol. People single girl maaaa.

So I asked if I could head home to wash up first 😂 #vain lolol.

I was quite upfront with my feelings lolol go tell my date I’m nervous 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

And then Ahpei damn disturb, ask me not to consult my BESTFRIEND all!! From the very first day, he read me like a book already 🤗

He knew exactly what I would be doing HAHAHAHA but I denied it la 😂😂

But consult my BESTFRIEND was the first thing I did BAHAHAHAHAHA I KENT 🤣

Also asked my sisters for opinion on where to go lololol I’m such a nervous wreck 😅😅

In the end Ahpei suggested meeting at my condo playground even though we could’ve just met at CWP; he was gonna come pick me up! +10 points lolol 😊

Even BESTFRIEND approved hehe 👍🏼

Happy sigh, writing all these really makes me feel the same excitement I felt while anticipating Ahpei’s arrival lolol 🙈

Long story short, we sat at the playground and REALLY ATE WANG WANG while we talked about Ahpei’s childhood.

Then we walked to CWP, with Ahpei telling me all about his NS life cos I was just too nervous to say anything, so he did all the story telling 😂

Amazing how he kept talking and talking just to engage me in a conversation HAHAHA!

I’ve NEVER been on a date, much less meet anyone from Tinder wtf. Apparently I was the first person Ahpei met from online too! At that point of time, who would’ve though we’d end up married to each other!!

Really is fate 😭❤️🙏🏼

I barely talked during our dinner at Subway. Ahpei told me to pick a restaurant but I picked Food Republic and he was like “What?!!” 😂

So I picked Subway lor..

I remember being so nervous my skirt was wet with perspiration from sitting down LOLOL and I couldn’t even finish my fud for the first time cos I felt like puking from nervousness (legit, I wanted to throw up) cos so 反胃 🤮

After the awkward dinner (mostly on my end), we didn’t know where to go and kind of ended up outside the MRT.

Assuming I just dug my own grave, I blurted out an awkward “Ok bye” cos I thought Ahpei was gonna take the train and leave liao 😂😂

But then he was like xiao shocked lolol so he said “Oh nvm la lemme walk you home!” But then I was like uh my house very far.. LOL 🙄 I said all kinds of crap (we walked here in the first place) that didn’t make sense ugh lemme go shoot myself!!! 😩

Thankfully, Ahpei insisted on walking me home and it was then I kinda loosened up and talked more.

At times I’d find myself walking ahead of him (lol my gancheong nervousness.. got so eager to go home or not!!) & Ahpei had to keep reminding me to chill and walk slower 🤣

So that night, we walked reallyyyyy slowly but I still got home at like 8pm HAHAHA what kind of first date end so early one!!

We said an awkward goodbye at my gate and I saw Ahpei turn around and leave. No lingering at all.

SIAO LIAO LOR.

I was so scared I’d never score a second date cos I’m such a weirdo 😥🙄 When I stepped into the house feeling all dejected, my family be like “walau why you so fast come back?!!”

😩💔

I really thought I gg.com already, but then the next moment, Ahpei texted me! 😃

To tell me that he felt lonely walking out himself aww! Then he also said next time I should buy him steak!

It was THE second date sign!! 🙌🏼

Had to seek assurance from my BESTFRIEND again 😅

Anw Ahpei did ask me out a second time (to eat YTF and then we went to Woodlands Waterfront Park where he tied my hair with a strand of grass rmb?!) and the rest is history.

And so guys, that was how I met my ahlao! ☺️

I hope my silly story is worth the wait hahaha.

I didn’t dare write about this not because I am ashamed of online dating (I had no chance to meet people offline cos of work so really bobian), but more because the idea of marrying someone I met online sounded so damn far fetched even to myself and I didn’t want to jinx anything until things got serious 😆

Before I even matched with Ahpei, I really did match with a bunch of freaks; one even asked me if I’m a virgin wtf I unmatched immediately. Why is that his daiji anw?!

Out of all the real weirdos and tikopeks who wanted nothing but ‘casual fun’, I really struck the jackpot with Ahpei.

From day one, he was this proper, polite gentleman, loves his family, loves my family, loves 观音菩萨, loves Singapore.. 😂😂

We share so many similarities and I’m thankful we got along so well, which really helped our relationship blossom :’)

Till today, it’s hard to believe I actually found someone like him on Tinder so don’t give up hope guys! There are gud people online! 😌

So yep fast forward 10 months, Ahpei asked me to marry him and then fast forward another 10 months, we signed the papers to become man and wife 💘

On New Year’s Day this year, we held an intimate solemnisation party to share the joy with the people dearest to us 🙂

With the help of some of my close friends & generous vendors-turned-friends, here are some pictures from our #SagaSeedWedding 🤗

📷 Photography: @/frames.persecond / @joycesayshello – sponsored

🎊 Concept & styling: @/iwgcreations – sponsored

🌹🍃 Floral arrangement: @/amyt.fleur – sponsored

💄💋 Make-up: @missanpan – her job 😂

💇🏻‍♀️ Hair: @/blackhairsalon – sponsored

👀 Lash extensions: @/lushlabsg – sponsored

👰🏻 Dress: @/zalora – bought
👟 Sneakers: @/thesocialfoot – bought

🤵🏻 Outfit: Bangkok, H&M – bought
👞 Leather shoes: Bata – bought

💍 Wedding bands: Tiara Creation – bought

🥘🥦 Mini buffet: @/neogardencatering – sponsored

🍰 Wedding kek: #Goobycakes – laoniang bek one

Ok done with the declarations, moving on! 😂❤️

Starting with this shot of Ahpei literally holding his heart while watching me walk down the ‘aisle’ 😭❤️

I’ve dreamed of looking at this face of his, looking at me. But that day, I couldn’t look at him at all. I looked in front as I walked towards Ahpei but it was a blurry scene 😭😭😭

Btw guys, I painstakingly cropped all the pictures into a square so y’all can appreciate the full beauty of the setup done by Grace & Amy!

Love the rustic colour palette of cream, dark red & green. It’s perfect ✨

Holding baba’s arm, I could feel his nervous breathing. I know baba must have been overwhelmed with emotions too :’)

Everyone was clapping and cheering, our song was playing at the background..

And that at that very special moment, my VIP came up to me :’)))

What a precious moment with my big love 🐶❤️

Thank you so much for capturing this @joycesayshello!!

I was really happy and 放心 having Joyce shoot for us cos as a fellow dog mami herself, I knew she’d look out for these special gougou moments for me!! 🙆🏻‍♀️💕

I was pleasantly surprised when Ahpei presented the bouquet to me because I completely forgot about flowers 😅

Couldn’t take my eyes off ahlao cos somebody so well-dressed, so handsome ☺️😍🤩

After Ahpei said his vows (he memorised every single word of it 😢), I turned to baba and be like “Baba! Your phone?”

Cos I typed mine in my dad’s notes app that very morning while everyone was busy getting ready 😆

In the foreground is BBIL, helping us record that very moment on video.

I put him in charge of my Olympus that day and he really helped us capture many many shots while carrying the various lens & tripod around tirelessly. SANKS @icetallmilk! 🙌🏼

Ahpei fez here I kent 😭

Our wedding bands from Tiara.

We were walking around Centrepoint when we chanced upon this shop! I liked their classic & minimalist designs (although some a bit 老老 la 😅) plus the price was very reasonable 🙂

Ahpei and I are not into brands so we didn’t look around much and confirmed the purchase that very day! 😁

Helping Ahpei out on his ring felt so surreal.

As a young girl, I’ve always seen weddings on TV shows and movies but then at that very moment, I was living that scene.

When Ahpei put my ring on for me, I was only thinking one thing:

Don’t get stuck 😂😂

Our bride and groom chairs! 😍

This came as a surprise cos I didn’t expect Grace & Amy to decorate the chairs too!

Cos the thing is, we held our solemnisation ceremony at my place and the green lounge was actually a public area 😂 #sobasic

We didn’t rent tables nor chairs so it was really nice of them to prettify these chairs for us!!

My saga seed terrarium ring holder awww ❤️

I love it so much!! The Mr & Mrs signs were secretly requested by my ahlao lol I didn’t even know he had these in mind!

Thank you Grace for getting these for us! 🙆🏻‍♀️

Bought our gold glitter pens from TYPO since I had a 20% discount hahaha.

Baba was so nervous signing our wedding cert! 😆

AND WE ARE OFFICIALLY MARRIED! 👰🏻🤵🏻

This floral arch was more that what I could ever dream of having. The fabric, the colours, the massive arrangement.. 💕

Thank you so much for going all out and exceeding our expectations Grace & Amy :’))

💏

Love this shot!!

It was Bryan’s idea (for my dress) hehe and Joyce captured it at the right moment! Kudos to them 😍

BTW BRYAN IS HER PHOTOG FRIEND.
HE IS NOT ZILONG.
I REPEAT, HE IS NOT ZILONG.

Cos someone stupiak go shake his hand and call him ZL lolol erhem yes I am talking about you @missanpan 🤣

Oh and so many of you were asking me since the begging of time 😂 YES I baked my own wedding kek! 🙌🏼

I actually didn’t have any idea how I wanted it to look like lol. Until the day before!! I stared at the layers of kek, completely out of inspiration 😩

Then I remembered Grace telling me she’s gon incorporate dark red roses, plus Ahpei shirt is burgundy too.. so ya lor, I decided I’d just make a rustic kek in the same colour 😅

Threw on some matching macarons, gold leaves and bam! D’was my kek ✨

Even gugubie couldn’t focus lolol; he wanted to lunge for the kek! It did smell pretty gud la HAHAHAHA 🤗

Huge thanks to Grace for making the little buntings for us! It says ‘BEST DAY EVER’ 🤩

This candid shot of gugubie & I 😁

And zomg I cannot remember my hair was this long!! And this was 2 months ago only lolol.

As you can see, my ahlao really loved the MR & MRS glitter signs 😂😂

More 😆😆

I feel like I don’t deserve this pretty set up at all 😭 It’s too perfect already 😭😭😭

Can’t believe they transformed an empty public area into this rustic, dreamy, floral wonderland ❤️✨

I was so heppi to be a sneakers bride, like finally!! These were really comfy to be in! Definitely my kind of wedding shoes compared to heels!! 😍

One more of us against the gorgeous backdrop 🙂

Gugubie was wearing a bow tie too! His groomer gave it to him hehe. I specially kept it for this day! Mami get married, of course my behbi must be cute cute 🐶

“You married my mami?”

“Ok sayang me first then you can be my dehdi!!”

😂😂

#ThisGooby obviously enjoying his massage very very muchie HAHAHAHA. Tongue come out all 🤣

Zomgah still feeling very emotional when I see this photo.

Which is a zoomed in version of..

This photo 💓💓

Ling came forward to give me a hug and we just held each other and BAWLED 😭

So much love for this sister who was with me throughout this whole journey from our Tinder days. She met BBIL on Tinder too! And he also soldier. We really is 姐妹 la sia 🤗

They are getting married in two weeks zomggg I will confirm be damn emotional la!!!

I still rmb when Ling worked with me at Goobycakes. I was really worried that our crazy work schedule would rob her of her chance to ever get married.

Cos the both of us hardly had the time to go out and meet new people the ‘traditional way’ – take part in social activities, get to know friends of friends (we didn’t even have many friends to begin with lolol)..

So the both of us figured enough is enough, we had to do something about our lives or we will work to our deaths and end up marrying each other 😂😂

I’m really glad to be on this journey with you meimei @missanpan 🙆🏻‍♀️

Not forgetting my other meimei, @jieyiwong, who always lends me a listening ear when I need one. Even through the late nights 🙆🏻‍♀️

Gugubie is so cute here btw!! 🐶

One with ahlao too & no he is not blinking and certainly not sleeping. His eyes are open. I repeat. HIS EYES ARE OPEN 🤣🤣🤣

And zomg gugubie is looking like a 乖宝宝 here just perched on my lap!! And he is legit smiling for the camera aww. So cuteee I kent ❤️❤️

I’m just so so so thankful that Gooby was able to ‘attend’ my wedding. Glad we decided to have our solemnisation at home! 😃

I forgot if it was Joyce or Bryan who gave us the idea, or was it BBIL, but we decided to throw some saga seeds around to get that ‘confetti’ shot 😆

Tried so many times but we kept throwing them at different timings BAHAHA 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♂️

Poor Ahlec had to keep picking up saga seeds from the ground lololol 😂😂

One last pic; also my favourite 💋

Ahpei hates kissing me when I have lipstick or lip balm on hahaha but on our wedding day he didn’t mind at all sia! Hehehe 🤩

Jokes aside, thank you, my dayre friends, for reading our story and sharing our joy. Thank you for your well wishes, virtual support & love :’)

From here on, Ahlei and I will continue to appreciate each other, love each other, and grow together to become better people 😌

I feel a little sad that I can’t continue to share more about our wedding & home renovation happenings here on Dayre anymore 😔

But fret not guys, this won’t be the end ok? If you’d like to continue following snippets of our wedding planning & home renovation journey, I will update regularly on Instagram @missgoob 🙂

As for writing, I already have a dot com so I’d probably continue writing there:

http://www.missgoob.com 📝

Many of you have DM-ed to ask if I have a WordPress account – yes I created one under the username @missgoob but I haven’t decided if I want to be all over the place.. I downloaded WP mainly to do the dayre export.. after ending this post 😬

Sigh I feel like kraiing now!! 😩

Wtf why am I even so emotionally attached to an app. But we are talking about yearsss of memories here ya. And it’s already part of a lifestyle. Dayre-less life will need some major getting used to 😟

So I guess this is goodbye, my virtual friends! 👋🏼

Thank you for sticking around 🙆🏻‍♀️

If you ever see Ahpei and I on the streets, don’t be shy and do say hi to us ok! I will give you a warm DAYRE FRIEND HUG! 🤗

Dayre might be gone but our friendship shall not be! Love y’all & take care ❤️

Xx.

🐶🐷🐱 + #SungHouse updates!

Hi guys, sorry for the disappearance cos if you follow me closely on IG, you’d realise that my sickly body went down on 大年初三 😅

I think it was too much yusheng and too little water during visiting sigh. I have officially lost my voice lolol.

I went to bed at the end of 初二 feeling kinda sick already. My throat was burning (maybe from all the karaoke) and I just felt unwell.

Woke up to a full blown sore throat and fever the next day 😑😑 Had to give the festivities a miss! 😦

初三

No mood for ootd but it was a playsuit & sneakers kinda day 😌

Went to visit yeye with my fam before I headed home to feed Gooby and concuss in bed.

We brought some of gege’s favourite CNY goodies for him too! And 跟爷爷拜年 🍊🍊

He was really really heppi to see all of us (he asked about 宋先生 too!!) and even thanked us for visiting him; we todali should though.. 😢

Yeye also held my hand a lot and told me 加油 and 不要让我失望 😭 Yeye I will work hard and make you proud!!! ❤️

I was really feeling like shit after the visit so baba drove me to the MRT while Ahlec drove the sisters to Nel’s place for mahjong! I wanted so much to join them la!! 😩

The train ride home was excruciating cos it was so hot, plus yew tee to redhill be like China to USA. I was sooo dizzy I half wished I would faint so the ambulance can send me home lol. That was one long ride home man.

But I was so heppi to see gugubie hehe and he’s being all cute while waiting for me to make his dinner here!

“FASTER COOK MY DINNER MAMI!!”

I made him sit down and he did! What a gud boy Gooby!! 🤩

So cute lah this face?! 😍😍😍

He was smiling so widely hehehe. My hart exprode.

Eating like a pig 😂😂

NOM NOM NOM 👅👅

I always place his bowl on this thing so he doesn’t have to bend too low compared to eating from the floor. Looks more comfy this way! 😃

Gugubie joined mami for a nap after dinner. He was licking my arm so much lolol is it sayang me.

We both fell asleep till like 9pm when my folks came home and brought me dinner that my aunt cooked 🙂

After a light dinner, I took meds and went to bed again. I hadn’t seen Ahpei the whole day, which was super shitty. I missed him so much. Then he sent me a text.

👦🏻 Ah 猪 cut hair cos he going for course..

The moment I saw this, my hart legit melt.

I was previously feeling quite upset that our plans kinda fell through due to some miscommunication and last minute changes and also cos I fell sick.. but then him sending me a pic of Ah zu really made me smile :’)

And then came a series of silly videos:

👦🏻 First he did sit ups

👦🏻 Then jumping jacks..

👦🏻 Then he went for a run…

Dat run though 😂😂😂

And it ended with a super cute GIF of Ahzu dancing 😢

By the time I watched all of the clips, I was an absolute crying mess 😩😭

Knowing Ahpei did sth so silly just to make me smile, I was really touched. Cos that was legit the happiest moment of my shitty day cos I felt so horrible the whole time.

🐷❤️

初四

I woke up late cos the medicine effects really consumed me lol. Cleared some work on my laptop, had a quick lunch, before heading out with ahlao to check out some furniture.

Although we only need the house by September, we want to start looking around early since we are juggling wedding & house at the same time & I DO NOT WANT TO BE OVERWHELMED AT THE LAST MINUTE LOL.

Checked out a few furniture stores & ahlao seemed to have found his dream sofa 😂

Not sure if it’d fit though lolol.

Dinner was a ‘simple’ shabu shabu to clear CNY leftovers but apparently Nya Nya bought a lot more meat to feed the boys 😅

And our 葱 business is prosperous one. What you see on the table is like half only lolol. We halfway clear all and still add more 🤣

No wonder I’m so 聪明 sigh first world problems.

Ahpei stayed after dinner to discuss our October Taiwan trip (plus visit his relatives after our wedding so it’s more of a dual family trip) with Nya Nya and I was just playing 2048 😆

Is it me or is Taiwan a really confusing place??? Names of places were popping out here there everywhere and there 东南西北 all.. I literally zoned out after a while. I let my ahlao handle lolol 😂

I am so not a travel planner. I prefer to take nua vacations and just explore whatever area I’m in, instead of doing up an itinerary down to the day and hours.

I absolutely will never book myself on a group guided tour 😵

That said, I’m still very very thankful for ahlao doing all the planning and routing for us 🙆🏻‍♀️ but don’t make me wake up at 7am everyday can? 😂

Ahlao giving gugubie a massage before leaving my place. But… what kind of sea lion calls…… 🤣🤣 look at my Gooby looking all confused HAHAHAHAHAHA.

At the carpark, I was giving ahlao his goodbye hugs when I got distracted by a maomao!! 🐱

“Why are you in the carpark all alone????”

“Lemme gib you a massage!!”

But then cats always get distracted by my ahlao one leh. Why liddat.

I think I hit her shiok spot.

HAHAHAHA SO SHIOK IS IT 🤩

Thank you ahlao for accompanying me to play with maomao & even helping me snap pics of her (cos I left my phone at home) even though you think she’s quite dirty HAHAHAHA.

Actually, she really is quite dirty cos my fingertips were black after rubbing her everywhere lolol 😆

初五

It was a mad rush at work because I had to free up my evening to meet Ahpei! We were bringing our contractor to view #SungHouse 😁

The session went great cos we told him the rough idea of how we want the house to look like, settled the aircon, lights & electricity points too!

Decided not to hack the old parquet flooring and just lay vinyl tiles over them to save costs (anyone has a similar experience to share? #dayrehomes) since we don’t plan to live here for a thousand years 😂

The discussion went on from 530 to almost 8! The sky was dark already lolol and we were SO HANGS!!

Wanted to grab dinner at the nearby food centre but all the stalls closed alr! 😭

Our next alternative was Seah Im, since it was just less than 5 minutes drive away lol. I foresee us eating here a lot next time 😂

My ahlao eats like a girl leh walau. What a small plate of noodles wtf. I feel like a pig for choosing nasi goreng 😆

But then again, he MUST have this char kway teow every time he’s here (like my dad!!) cos it’s just too basic and gud. But ahlao say he needs 5 plates to feel full 😅

My glorious nasi goreng ayam was $5.5 but quite worth it considering they gave one whole chicken leg!! Like the thigh and drum. And fried on the spot somemore! So it was piping hot 🙌🏼

I requested for non-spicy rice so it’s not the usual red colour haha. Sorry I noob I sked chilli 😬

The portion was huge so half went to my personal rubbish bin lolol.

These days I indulge in whatever I want but then portion must control la. 9pm whack one whole plate of fried rice next day confirm phat 2kg wtf.

Ahpei eat so much fud but all dunno go where one zz 🙄🙄 abs so firm, arms so toned, face so slim, ass so small and cute..

LIFE IS UNFAIR ROARRR.

But then again he exercises every day la not like me la hor. Exercise my fingers only 🤗

Don’t think many of you know but my ahlao eats bones. Of everything 🤯 ok minus fish.

Huge and gigantic ones don’t say, but this kind of small ones (especially those boil soup very long liao that kind), he will legit chew them into small pieces, suck the juice, then SWALLOW EVERYTHING.

Legit he eats all the bones too. Cartilage, soft bone, everything. Every time we eat chicken ah, the whole thing go in but nothing come out one 😰

Sometimes I worry about him choking but he insists we shouldn’t waste fud. Sometimes the bones that I pui out, he also eat!! Like a xiao don’t mind only sia.

So now when I eat chicken I automatically serve up the bones to my ahlao. My weird ahlao 😅😂

Followed him home last night cos #clingywife and we decided to watch a movie in bed again! But then I fell asleep halfway 😬😬😬

In the end ahlao decided we should not continue watching it and we went to bed tgt lol. Woke up this morning to his giant alarm clock (gah I hate that thing I always feel like I’ll have a heart attack so loud for what!!) & then we cuddled a bit before he really had to peel himself off me 😆

Spent some time with Ahzu while I dayre-d in bed before grabbing to work lol.

How is it I rather spend more time in bed than save $15 on transport.. I am bewildered too. BUT ME IZ TIREDZ AND WOODLANDZ IS AFRICA.

So yep spend money it shall be 💁🏻‍♀️

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Omg wtf I need to show y’all this moth that flew into my room & almost gave me a seizure!!!!!!

And it’s kinda hugeeee 🤢

Nilar very kindly tried to help me chase it out of the room but we are both damn sked that we will accidentally injure or kill it! 😫

The moment it flew it think my soul also flew tgt 🤣🤣 I AM SO SKED.

CAN YOU OWNSELF GO AWAY PLS PLS PLS 🙏🏼

Wtf she is damn brave wtffff. Btw the moth wasn’t harmed cos Nilar only trapped it in the tissue and we set it free from our balcony 🤗

Ahlao if you’re reading this, this is your future job. You have to catch all the 飞飞 and also the lizards. Hao ma, ok you don’t have a choice, xiexie. Bye.

One last thing before I hit the sack, I really want to thank my ahlao.. for always being so accommodating towards me ❤️

Whenever I ask him to free up some time either for wedding or house errands, he checks his schedule and almost immediately lemme know his free days / hours.

Like it’ll be like:

👩🏻 I can’t travel in March already, I think May is better.

👦🏻 Tell me the dates I will take leave.

Or

👩🏻 We should start checking out some furniture too!

👦🏻 Today lor!

Or

👩🏻 The fridge we picked no more stock, when are you free to meet the Bosch people again?

👦🏻 This Friday I can.

Or

👩🏻 Oh ya we need to meet Ah Heng (our contractor) and show him the house..

👦🏻 Tmr I am free after 4pm.

And immediately we will schedule a meeting 😁

Thanks to ahlao, we have been striking things off the list! He makes planning a such a breeze & I actually don’t hate planning for our trips, wedding or house at all, because I have him. I don’t feel alone.

Plus he is always SUPER PATIENT in doing research and all.. sometimes I feel so bad cos I’m impatient, lazy & just pure useless 😩

I always thank him verbally & by giving him a hug or kiss but I still feel that he deserves some extra love here there everywhere 🤗

So xiexieni, 我的 ahlao 🙆🏻‍♀️💕

CNY 2018; 初二 🍍💕

Hello everyone!! Today is a longggg day for us! 4 places to visit 😆

Actually we already cleared 3 places & I’m currently lounging in bed before we set off in a while for my ahlao’s place! 🙂

During our Christmas gathering last year, Ma alr had plans for today lolol and she very kindly invited my sisters & their ahlaos over too! It’ll be a huge gathering hehe. Can’t wait! But first, lemme do a quick recap cos today we 拍全家福! 🙆🏻‍♀️

Not without 阿狗狗 of course!!

Gooby senses soemthing eggciting and he couldn’t stop smiling! He was so heppi 😁😁

Sorry for the dog voice but if you dog mami you will know 🤣

Love this so much but gugubie not looking!! 😆

And then it got so windy 😂

Gugubie finally smiles for the cam!! 😍😍

So cute la he. Got eb aunty to carry somemore! Is it VIPig.

Awww. BBIL stayed over last night so he helped us take all the nice nice photos hehe. So I return the favour 🤗

Wah biang eh I also nubbad one please..

Then they mock me say wanna imitate my ootd poses all!! Ungrateful bunch!!! 🤣

But thanks for helping me spam pics la HAHA.

It was so windy lolol.

But I love this series of #awkwardCNYootd hahaha. You can’t really see but I’m wearing Ong Lai earrings! 🍍🍍

Ok finally a proper one where my hair is not explosive 😅

Loving today’s outfit cos don’t need to worry about indecent cleavage exposure and I can open leg big big!

Not so sure about belly rolls exposure 😂😂

High neck halter top: @zalora

Bondi flowy pants: @thetinselrack

Striped slip-on flats: @cottonon

Dog: ADOPTED 🤩🙌🏼💕

All photos taken by BBIL @icetallmilk!

#ADOPTDONTSHOP 🐶🐶

#ThisGooby is too eggcited to be out in the sun! He was busy trying to eat little flowers off the ground too tsk tsk. 🌸

口花花! 😂

HI THERE WHO DAT BIG NOSE CUTIE ⚫️

The folks 🙆🏻‍♀️

Their transition glasses turned full black cos of the sun lolol! 😎

One more with the sisters! ❤️
@missanpan @jieyiwong

Mahoo so pretty in her outfit today la!! 😊

My behbi looking sooo cuteee and sooo heppi!!

It was such a heppi morning 😃

My turn to work hahaha 📷📷

Don’t say don’t have.

DON’T SAY DON’T HAVE.

DON’T. SAY. DON’T. HAVE!!

Sun rays on point, 要笑不笑 smile on point, crossed mid-walk legs on point, biceps on point you owe me 88888 pictures of me and my ahlao tmr I don’t care 🙄@icetallmilk

We were at Popo’s when all of us received a very very amazing Facebook notification.

IT WAS BABA!! 🤩🤩

He uploaded his first set of pics on fb and even wrote a caption!! Miracle please!! Coming from him lol. Cos he always chides us for using social media – everything also must take photo meh? 😂

But wow he created his post without the help of anyone leh! Is it achievement unlocked!!

Helped Mahoo snap her ootd otw out! This pretty wall is too legit to be missed!

Someone so pretty today ah! 🤗

But 好人没好报, this is what I get in return:

Another round

Of exaggerated imitation

And ridiculous mocking!!

ZBJ LOL I WHERE GOT LIDDAT PLEASE! 🤣

Our diet these days lol gg.com.

Tried my best to control my intake by sharing the kueh lapis and pineapple tarts with Ahlec and Mahoo 😅

Legit 一人一口 cos there’s too many things to try!! Everyone is out to make me phat nuuuu 😩

Sneaked a couple more pics at the carpark of 大舅’s place hehe.

Lighting is a bit dark but I lazy to edit la 💁🏻‍♀️

There’s actually a faggoting (horrible term lolol but it’s factual; Google it!) detail in the middle of my crop top but you can’t see it here haha. A bit peekaboo but nothing too indecent!

Love my flats very much cos they go really well with my saga seed toenails! ❤️

This was the pair I dirtied at Marina Bay & also the pair that my ahlao secretly washed for me :’))

Next stop was to visit 观音菩萨! 🙆🏻‍♀️🙏🏼

Recently bestfriend told me that guanyin is actually male and I kent unhear that lolol. So weird la but I googled and there’s actually a few versions of guanyin!!

But to me she will always be a girl 🤗

Oh and you can see the faggoting on my top here!

咚咚锵!! Lion dance lai liao!! 😁😁

I’m a lion hear me ROARRR! 🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁

Lolol dat big nose is really too cute.

Final stop of the day – My second home! 🏠😃

Look at this yusheng!! This is homemade ok!! Jiejie made it hehe. Best yusheng we ate this year; really is 狗年旺旺!! 🐶

Mandatory yusheng shot lolol 😁

Pa & Ma specially prepared a Taiwanese feast for all of us! 👅

Cheers to an awesome year with these people 🍻

As you can see, it was a MASSIVE mess😅

Group pic! 😃

CNY 2018; 初一 🐶🍊

At the stroke of midnight; never apart ❤️

Every year I wake him up from his sleep to tell him ‘heppi new year’ lolol 😁

Gugubie’s face be like, what is going on mami? So blur so confused HAHA.

Won some money over mahjong with the fam! 💰

The channel 8 fortune teller said Snakes are going to enjoy good luck this year! And whole year will 甜甜蜜蜜 whee 💕

Looking forward to ban luck tmr hehe 🤩

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And yes, ZBJ means 猪八戒 😂

I picked it up from my ahlao since our dating days cos he always says that and now we call each other zbj lolol 🐽

Actually, anything can be zbj. Like the long queue outside a restaurant, a stomachache, the hot weather, an annoying person, a cute person, a bowl of noodles..

You GEDDIT 🤣

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Good morning everyone! 💋

祝大家身体健康，心想事成! 🐶🍊

Here’s my unofficial 初一 ootd, wearing the full berry set from #TheTinselRack! Thank you @joycesayshello for saving me this! I’m wearing XL btw 😁

Unfortunately I swopped this pretty top for another floral one cos baba said no 😟

Then again it might not be a gud idea to wear this to a buffet lunch lolol. Quite unforgiving uh 😅

Bainian to the staircase 🍊🍊
#awkwardCNYootd

So dis the top I’m wearing today! Bought it from Zalora for twenty bucks. It’s quite unique cos it’s not fabric! Sth like faux leather & waterproof hehe.

Glad it goes quite well with the pencil skirt! Love the floral prints & ruffled hem 🤩

Half-assing my ootd at the staircase landing 😂

Wearing L for the top & skirt is XL btw! Nice wedges from Zalora too. Bought them eons ago, for $40 I think!

And mama lives on the 8th floor legit. So nice for my pic, huat huat 💰💰

Thanks to my meimei @jieyiwong for patiently helping me with the 8165209 pics 🤗

Matchy matchy with ahlao 💋

Left mama’s house to join his fam for CNY lunch at Kiseki zomg & I already took pasta haha halp me 🤣

Ahlao and his fam are still eating & I am like 😵 it’s been 3 hours lol is it bottomless pit.

Post lunch, we went up to check out the rooftop garden & take some pictures! 😁

Ma LOVES doing funny poses and Pa LOVES entertaining her 😂

Ask for kisses all 😘

Ok getting a proper pic was hard because..

She got wacky again 😆

But wow lemme take a moment to give thanks to my heels and this skirt that made me look a lot taller than I am 🤗

With pa 😊

🤪🤪

And with my love ❤️

💋💋

Jiejie damn gud at taking pics la?! 🤩

And a SungFam selfie 🙆🏻‍♀️

It was a really nice afternoon spent with them 🙂 we also went shopping at Dondon Donki but I was too full to be interested in any fud lol 😅

Ahpei accompanied me back to Mama’s house again in the evening & we decided to combine forces and bet $1 together for banluck.

哪里知道, become damn huat 🙀

IS IT LUCKY BIJ.

We first game be 桩 then we 五龙 11 points lolol. Ok la our family nv play big big but $3 each still quite shiok hahaha 💰💰

Throughout the evening, we also won most games & 五龙-ed another two times 😆

Don’t know is it we combine forces so damn huat or my lucky charm (the 双喜 confetti I kept from @lettytan’s wedding 😂) is working it’s magic haha but we won like $57 (which is a lot to me lol) today!

Hope y’all are having a gud time gambling too! 🙌🏼

Home made yusheng prepared by my aunt! Such a huge portion for our family lolol 😱

LAO AH! 🎉

We came home after dinner since most of the 长辈 are quite tired.. but the cousins are coming over to mahjong wewww!

My tired ahlao is tired so I booked a grab for him.. with our winnings 😂😂

Imma keep the money separately and update you guys at the end of our CNY gambling spree hoho.

Yay they’re here! The night is still young lol 😂

Masking while I mahjong haha. Nya nya’s been complaining about my huge pile of masks taking up space in the fridge oopsie. So I’m spamming every day now.

Love this charcoal mask from #kosecosmeportsg cos it hugs my gigantic face damn well!

The size, shape and fit is just amazing for me 🤩

Lucky charm still working it’s magic!! 💰💰

I think I can start to charge a fee and let people worship it HAHAHA. One touch $1. One use $2! 🤣

One year since Ahpei proposed ❤️

Did everyone have a good Valentine’s Day? ☺️

I DID!!

With ahlao, and my family 💕

So this happened yesterday… 😆

I was otw out to meet Ahpei when he appeared at my doorstep with flowers lol zbj!!!

I look damn shitty in the video but ya that was my awkward shocked fez 🤣

Xiexieni ahlao :’)

I’m really not a flowers kinda girl so I wasn’t expecting this at all. Plus, Ahpei made us hook pinky all, promise each other not to plan surprises or get gifts for vday. In the end he blindside me.. 😅

I really nv prepare anything for him lor! 🤭

So sweet this ahlao ☺️☺️

He came to pick me from work & we went grocery shopping for our Vday laksa steamboat cum reunion dinner together! 👅

It was a last minute plan we came up with the night before cos I really find vday so gimmicky and I don’t want him to spend unnecessary money!! 😆

And I mean it when I say 天天都是情人节 but Ahpei said he really wanted to spend it wimme, like at least have dinner tgt.. cos it’s our ‘proposal day anniversary’ LOLOL I KENT 😅😁

Can’t believe he proposed this time last year and we are now spending our first Valentine’s Day as man & wife ❤️

So, thank you for still making the effort to get me flowers, and an orange heehee :’)

He wanted to cook at my place while waiting for me to end work but I honestly sked he set my house on fireee 😂😂😂

So ya cook tgt better 🤣🤣

Sorry ahlao! 🙈

Lol zbj. This happened when I went to spit out the orange seeds.

Ahlao told me to spit them in his hands but how could I lolol. He doesn’t mind but still 😅

We headed to Tiong Bahru Plaza to grab some stuff for dinner but then zomg, grocery shopping with ahlao is the WORST EVER.

He just keeps taking EVERYTHING! 😆

The dinner was only gonna be for the both of us but he grabbed SO MUCH STUFF.

The fear is real.

Our basket was so full it looked like we were preparing a reunion feast for a whole family la! 😂

We had a bank errand to run too so we decided to bring the groceries to the car first. But they were really quite heavy so ahlao took them from my hand and told me to wait while he ran to the car 😭

Missed the part where he ran but ya, 6 huge bags of stuff including detergent and all.. Xiexie ahlao 😩😭

Came home to a delivery from Yoku Moku!

Lolol gugubie all curious again cos he knows there’s fud 😁

Chocolate ‘cigars’!

They sent me the milk and semi sweet ones but I personally find no obvious difference in taste after trying both hahaha 😅

House husband material 💯

While I was busy taking pics, Ahpei already started washing and chopping the ingredients. He even asked me if I prefer fine of chunky for my spring onion aww 🤗

CHUNKY OF COURSE 👅👅

YASSS BABY DIS MA FAVEEEE 🙌🏼

We bought laksa pasta from Prima Taste (tho they alr sent me a hamper of all their pastes lolol but I’m keeping them for another gathering with friends) and it was very easy to prepare!

The moment I emptied everything into the boiling water, the powder and paste just melted in and there were zero lumps. Bagus! 👍🏼

But will you check out all the fud on the table FOR THE TWO OF US. Mega siao please. We had more in the fridge which I refused to let Ahpei wash cos I know we confirm cannot finish! 😆

We didn’t add all the sambal since my threshold for spicy fud was quite low haha.

So the gravy wasn’t too spicy & I enjoyed my meal very muchie hehehehe 😊

While we had dinner, I couldn’t stop humming cos I was so heppi?! In the comfort of my own home, with the LOML, with great fud.. what more can I ask for!! 😍

We were like two silly birds going “Hmm this is so nice!! I’m so heppi!! Are you heppi? I love today!! So yummeh!! Wheee!” non-stop cos we were really so heppi & contented with our mini vday celebration lololol.

It was a simple meal but it was the best.

I’m so so glad ahlao is on the same ‘wavelength’ as me hahaha cos it would be sucky if he loved home dinners like this and I secretly wanted an atas restaurant feast. Or vice versa.

I’m just thankful for simple heppiness 😌🙏🏼💕

Halfway throughout our lomanteek dinner, this stupiak BBIL had to come and interrupt 😒😒

HAHAHA JUST KIDDING.

He also very sweet, came home to borrow my jar for his lomanteek dinner with ling at level 28 (lolol sorry the house restaurant is booked by me first so get out of here bye 👉🏼) 🤣🤣

Look at him running out all 狼狈 BAHAHA.

Shortly after our dinner, the folks also came back home from their vday dinner (at Fika!!) hehe. Then the sisters & their ahlaos also slowly came back home. Everyone was around and we had a lovely time talking and laughing together 😁💕

It was a very heppi Valentine’s Day indeed ❤️

Forever disturbing me 😅😅

Ahlao stayed over ytd too and we had movie night in bed weehee!

We’ve been wanting to watch Downsizing cos it seemed so cool (in the trailer) but unfortunately it was not very nice at all???

I found it quite boring in fact lolol. Maybe it wasn’t funny enough and maybe we were really tired from the fud so we both fell asleep halfway! 😆

We decided to skip the next half of the movie and hug each other to sleep instead lolol.

Although we didn’t manage to finish the movie (I’m sorry Matt Damon, I tried), I still felt really contented from the whole day 😌

I love it when ahlao stays over but the only shitty part is, we have to squeeze on my single bed HAHA.

Sometimes ahlao hug me until I perspire cos no space to breathe lolol oopsie #romancegepi 😂

Cuddling is nice only when you’re awake I guess HAHA WHO AGREES?! 🤣

Wanted to make ahlao breakfast this morning BUT PIG LIFE CHOSE ME so I only had time to slice onions and had to go bathe lol.

In the end nya nya fried the omelette for the three of us HAHAHAHA 😂

Ahlao drove us to werk before going home so we will be spending CNY eve apart lol.

But we will be seeing each other for the next three days over CNY hehe I’m so heppi!! 🙆🏻‍♀️

Awww received this memory reminder on Facebook :’))

Is it me or did I really age so much but Ahpei didn’t age a single bit?! Zbj #unfair ☹️

YAY PANG GANG!! 🙌🏼

Otw to reunion dinner with Popo hehe. Mahoo cannot stop singing to all the cny songs on the radio HALP ME 😆

I was using my phone cam as a mirror while I applied lipstick and this bij took a shot of me 🤣🤣

Sorry for the scare if you got a shock HAHAHA 🤪

Wewww we are so ready for fud hehehe. Waiting for Popo to arrive now 💕

We always have our 团圆饭 at Diamond Kitchen (Science Park)! But last year was a bit disappointing.. hopefully it’s gud again this time! 😋

Anw guys I am legit in love with my $5 coral pasar malam lipstick lol. Damn regret never buy more cos this colour is so naise without being too loud 👍🏼

Dinner was meh! So imma just share pics of the 2 best dishes hahaha.

This yusheng was yummy! Not too sweet, and the veggies tasted fresh without feeling like they have been shredded and left out for very long, if you know what I mean haha 😅

The crackers were BAGUS.

Braised pork leg! 🐷

This was also damn legit cos the meat fell off the bone so easily. And it was soooo tender and soft 🤤

I told myself to exercise self control and not get second helpings for any dish but I broke the rule for this lol.

But overall quite ok la since the food not that good, so I wasn’t too motivated to be greedy hahaha. It was my first time leaving a reunion dinner not feeling too full and bloated lol!

Rare cousin selfie with our Popo side cousin hahaha cos he’s like the only one 😂 Small family lol.

Got back home before 7pm!! Contemplated going for a swim but the sofa sucked me in and the rest is history 🤣

OH WELLLLLL 🤷🏻‍♀️

But we are gonna shower and start our annual CNY fashion show for baba lol 😅

It’s our yearly practice since young cos baba needs to know what we plan to wear for CNY.

Cannot too tight la, cannot too revealing la, cannot too short la.. 😆

So every year must buy more than enough cos sure got some kena strike off hahaha. Gud excuse to go shopping lol.

Ogayyyy baba just said no to my TTR bralette (expected) lol so I’m swopping it for another zalora top. Still gonna pair it with the berry pencil skirt though!

Guess I’ll save the full set for another date night with my ahlao hehe 💕

My pompom pjs are ready for CNY!! 🍊🍊

BBIL & the folks are playing mahjong now lolol. And I just realised its Total Defence Day today!

Exactly 76 years ago, we were surrendered to the Japanese on 大年初一, wow. Thankful for the peace and stability we have now 😌

🙌🏼

Thankful for baba, ahlao, and BBIL for serving the nation! 🇸🇬

Ok it’s not even National Day but ya. I love Singapore and I love our soldiers. 🙌🏼

Ok end of my random sharing; gonna go slap on a mask nao! 🤪

Since it’s the year of Ah 狗狗,
I must be Ah 美美 🤣🤣🤣

Dayre cold turkey 😔 + Lovely birthday 🌳❤️

I know I said the previous post was the last..

But kns it is SO HARD trying not to dayre. Ahpei made me take so many pictures over the weekend (it’s only been 2 days but the cold turkey is so bad wtf dayre are you a cigarette) but I’m like, take so many pictures also not gonna dayre 😔😔

Tried weblogit but I deleted it as quickly as I downloaded it lolol dat shit gave me such a headache 😆

I don’t wanna write anywhere else (WordPress or other apps) since I alr have missgoob.com so everything will be there if dayre really is going to be no more. It’s dayre or nothing!!

Tried to IG story a lot more but who am I kidding,
IT IS JUST NOT THE SAME 😩

Although I really need to thank you guys for following me there and sending so many messages to encourage me to come back to writing here 😢

And all the birthday texts.. I really want to krai 😭❤️

I thought I could just
say bye to Dayre..

But I actually teared while writing this.

Looking at Gooby walking around the house like a curious rat, I ALWAYS ALWAYS think back to that dark period, that very fateful day he collapsed as if his legs turned into jelly.

And also to the time when Ahpei and I were in our small Bukit Timah shop, handing out kek slices to all of you who bought keks to raise funds for Gugubie’s surgery so he can walk again. He stands weak now but when he’s excited he can even do a silly run!!

😭😭😭

Pregnant with food baby also counted right?

And yes, I read about EVERYTHING, even about your lovely pets like Bambuu, Danny, Goofy, Chloe.. even the late Scout and Toby 😌🙏🏼

From the first freaking day.

And I wrote LOTS OF FOOD; it got cut off haha. Tried so many good stuff (and got phat) just from reading dayre 🤣

Since it’s my birthday today, I shall make a wish.

I wish Dayre can stay (I’m sure we will all stay) although it probably takes a miracle & I also wish for everyone to be heppi here 😌🙏🏼

And before I get to my post proper, just wanna say thank you @sgbudgetbabe for everything you are doing for US.

I’ll support you in every way I can, be it a signature or a survey, or anything more you might need me to share 🙂

Ok drying my tears to write a heppi post! :’)

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Starting with this COFFEE KEK I baked for a very special order.

We actually don’t have coffee as one of the flavours on our menu but someone ordered this kek for his terminally ill dad who might be celebrating his very last birthday.. 😢

He requested for a coffee kek so I really couldn’t make him settle for an alternative. I didn’t want to either.

It was quite a last minute order so I didn’t have time to experiment and this was the product of my one-shot-bake 😆

Thankfully it was gud! 🙏🏼

Probably gonna make this again during our next bake sale, which will probably be after CNY hao ma? Focus your calories on Chinese New Year goodies for now hehehe.

Coffee lovers y’all must wait for this ok! 🍰☕️

Ended work early on a weekday and met BESTFRIEND @lettytan for an early birthday dinner!

We took a walk into Sentosa from Vivo 😌

Had dinner at Wave House (every Wednesday got 1 for 1 don’t say I nv share!!) & we were so stuffed lol.

The 1 for 1 is great BUT a bit lame cos the free item must be identical 😅 Heng we both like cream based pastas lolol.

But then..

How to finish two sets of nachos 😵😵

I had to bring home the other set for my family lolol. We couldn’t even finish our portion la!!

This heap of goodness tho 🌮🥑

The portion was legit huge and I recommend it for sharing among 3-4 pax haha. #goodthingsmustshare

Had such a great time talking and laughing my head off that night! Thank you so much for the birthday treat BESTFRIEND! 🙆🏻‍♀️❤️

Ahpei made me laugh out so hard that night cos it was 1111 and he accidentally texted his car wash guy HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I KENT 🤣

And this is why we never get things done 😅

#truth lol 😆

Met ahlao and his family after work on Saturday since my plans to meet friends got cancelled hehe.

Walking around Orchard is so scary cos there’s so much fud to try!! I tried my bez but still caved when I saw this MENTAIKO BAGUETTE 🤤🤤

Ahlao was really sweet and bought it for me immediately when he caught me lingering at the bakery lolol 😁

It was a bit salty but still quite gud! Hehehe.
Bread is love. Carbs iz lyfeee.

Weekends with you 🤪

We walked around the wholeeee afternoon and finally got home in the evening. His folks went straight to CWP for more shopping and we helped them carry their loots home and stole some time for a nap too hehe.

I am worse than an old woman 😂

This is us on the MRT lolol.

My ahlao makes sure he HOLDS ME DAMN TIGHTLY so I won’t fall on the train 🤣

I feel very safe thank you HAHA.

Escalator rides with Ahpei are the best kiki 💕

Anw my ahlao I currently soooo hooked on this soldier app game lolol. So I always gajiao him and act upset when he plays the game hahaha. But I’m really ok with it la cos I use the time to edit photos and IG 😅

Good thing is, Ahpei really gives me his 100% attention when we are in dating-mode. He never opens the game when we are hanging out spending quality time, and I’m thankful for that hehe 😌

But that doesn’t mean I don’t disturb him hahaha 😆

THEN AHLAO KRAI 😂😂

So cute leh zomg. Then I must sayang him 😅

And on Sunday,
we visited #SungHouse again!

To retrieve 🍍🍍 hehe.

Thankfully there were no ants! But after a week, the bottom of the pineapple got s bit mouldy 😅 发 liao lor!!

Geeky ahlao also brought this along to paste on our wall 😂

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I am so sorry for the laggy updates guys, cos I was so occupied with ahlao & family time the past couple days then tuesday was just work chionging. It’s almost 2am now and I’m finally rewinding time to finish my post!

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So we were at our new house and it was already evening time. We didn’t make plans for anything after that but all of the sudden, Ahpei announced that we were going for a picnic! 😧

👩🏻 Why suddenly go picnic?

👦🏻 Cos jiejie like.

👩🏻 Eee.. *secretly wondering if it’s for my birthday but then it’s not my birthday yet so I don’t dare to think to much hahaha*

👦🏻 Where’s the nearest Giant? We need to buy a picnic mat.

👩🏻 Wait, but where are we going to have a picnic?!

👦🏻 Nearby.

👩🏻 Henderson Waves? But you’re afraid of heights 😅

👦🏻 No la.

👩🏻 Mount Faber? Sentosa?!

👦🏻 Labrador.

👩🏻 EEEEEEEEEEEE. Xiexie ahlao :’)

Cos the thing is, I’ve always wanted to check out Labrador Park; I’ve only been there once when I was a kid and I have very vague memories of that place..

I casually mentioned about checking out Labrador someday cos we drove past the road sign the other day haha.

So Ahpei actually remembers and planned to take me there this time! 😃

Since we had literally NOTHING suitable for a picnic with us, we headed to the nearby NTUC to get some food. There was obviously not much ready-to-eat dinner food & that outlet didn’t sell picnic mats either!

Ahpei was rushing here and there, shuttling in and out of the supermarket, valu dollar shop and household store trying to find a mat for us. I xiao touched, but I was also half wondering – WHATS THE HURRY LOL.

He’s usually a very chill and more of a stroll person but he was walking so fast that day!! And he kept checking his watch, but I just don’t know why!

👦🏻 What do you want to eat?

👩🏻 I’m ok with anything you want! We can dabao hawker food since there’s only tidbits and biscuits here.. Or we go Vivo and buy?

👦🏻 We don’t have time. Ok forget it. We grab some food and go to Labrador first. Then I bring you to Vivo for dinner.

👩🏻 That’s like having dinner twice?!?! 🙀

👦🏻 This is a picnic only!!! #okcan

In the end we grabbed a carton of barley drink and a packet of snacks, before making our way to Labrador!

I don’t really expect surprises or secret plans from Ahpei (since we are alr married and this stage plus I really very low expectations one lolol 😅) but seeing him all gancheong and eager to execute his plan did make me feel a bit excited and really special 💓

Teeheehee 🤗

Tbh, any form of nature therapy just makes me really heppi and eggcited hehe. I love checking out parks and stuff! 😁

My ahlao knows me very well 🙆🏻‍♀️

Trees welcoming meeeee! 🌲🌲

We parked at the wrong carpark at first and didn’t know how to get to the park from Tamarind Hill. Ahpei was like “Ok let’s go let’s go!!” And he kept checking his watch it was really starting to bother me!

Bother not like an annoyed kind of bother but just sibeh curious if we were very very late for sth or what la lolol.

I was like wow ok rerac haoma what’s the rush is it catching the polar express!! 😆

When we finally arrived, I realised – Ahpei wanted to let me see the sunset 😌

Kikiki so heppi 💓💓

The breeze was bagus that day & I was so heppi hehe. Perfect for a park date! 🤗

Thank you for bringing me here 💋

The place wasn’t took crowded too, despite being a weekend. Which was great! Can’t wait to come here often after we move in hehe 🙂

Ahlao’s face 😂😂

It was quite cloudy that evening so the sunset wasn’t too in your face haha, much to Ahpei’s disappointment. Cos he googled pictures of purple and orange sunsets and wanted me to see that awww 👉🏼👈🏼

But I was still super thankful to be there 😌

I asked Ahpei if he could take photos of me and the trees 😁

And he took some really nice shots :))

I loveeeee my hair colour under the natural light! It’s on fiyaaa 🔥

Dis ma fav ❤️✨

We found a bench, sat down to eat our snacks, and I was presented with rings for my birthday 💍

I was laughing so much cos my rings can’t even fit?! Like only go until my nails there 🤣

We really super self-entertain lolol is it in love then become stupiak 😅

But I loved my rings so much hehehehe 😁

I realised heppiness can really be so simple when you’re with the right company.. you don’t even have to do exciting things but you still feel like your heart is bursting 💓

May we always be contented with simple things! 🙏🏼

💋💋

Cloudy sunset, but still a beautiful sight 😍

This is 💯 reality – my face IS bigger 🤣

This is fake cos I hide behind BAHAHA. But my heppiness was 8000% 🙌🏼

I felt so so so loved and lucky to be right there and then with the love of my life, sitting in a park, taking in the sunset, surrounded by trees 😌🌳❤️

Ahpei later told me that he almost booked some dinner for us at some altitude place but he struggled a bit cos he still felt I’d love this better.

WHICH I TODALI DID.

I’m so glad he chose nature therapy for me la! He knows exactly what would make me heppi 😌

Although I was xiao touched at his thoughtful plan, but I absolutely CANNOT appreciate fine dining and my hart would be so pain to enjoy that $400+ meal la really 😩

I really am not the kind of person who will splurge on food cos imma poop the next day anyway! 😅

A legit ytf over atas fud ANYTIME.

Ahpei explained that he wanted to bring me out for a nice meal since it was my birthday.. so he thought of bringing me there to 看夜景 haha but then hor, so dark cannot see my Ahlao’s fez…… 😍😍

We struggled with dinner options cos Ahpei insisted on bringing me to a restaurant to eat gud fud but then..

Gud fud be at Seah Im??? 😆

He told me to choose a place and I was like – I don’t know what to choose 😨

I finally picked ramen (enough of western food zomg I am so asian need my soup) so we went to a laksa steamboat place!

But the parking was full so we headed to Vivo instead, since it’s the nearest mall.

Ended up at Menya Musahi (I’ve never tried the ramen here so yep! 😋) and these were side dishes from Ahpei’s premium set.

I picked an a la carte ramen cos I need to stop over-eating! Every meal leading up to CNY is just a sin zomg I kent even.

Thank you for spoiling me:

We are seldom found in restaurant settings cos my natural habitat be like coffeeshop or foodcourt lol.

It actually felt a bit weird to be sitting in a restaurant with Ahpei tbh 😬

Stole a piece of lettuce for my birthday moustache 😂

Dinner is served!

We both picked the BLACK soup base, with garlic oil. Sibeh flavourful and kind of like the Nantsuttei one!

And would you check out my gigantic chicken leg!! 🤤🤤🤤

This was only $14.9 (excusing taxes) which I though was very worth it?!

I picked the thin noodles cos I prefer my ramen more al dente!

Ahpei picked the thicker, softer kind 😅

I tried some and they felt like soggy noodles in my mouth so nope lol.

Egg was bagusssss 👅

The noodle portion was also quite legit but Ahpei had to eat some for me since my chicken leg was so huge!

And wah the meat was perfectly tender and fell off the bones so easily! Todali bagus I highly recommend it!! 👍🏼

Thank you for the birthday treat ahlao 🙆🏻‍♀️❤️

We went shopping for CNY gifts for our folks at the atrium area and came across this super cute door mat at one of the pushcarts!

It was like $20 but I loved it so much la!!

Ahpei liked it too and we wanted to get it for our house but then we had CNY errands to run so we wanted to come back later to get it.

And guess who forgot about it.

US 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♂️

But at least we completed our tasks 😆

Ahlao volunteered to carry the heavy stuff while I only had to carry 1 box of cookies.. thank you for always being so nice to me 💕

Got home, showered & then ahlao presented me with a laminated version of his handwritten wedding vows! 🎁

I’ve always wished he’d write them out for me since I was crying the whole time during our solemnisation when he said his vows lolol 😅

I jokingly asked him is he could recite them again for me without looking.

AND HE DID!

He legit memorised it like the pledge leh what the… I was too shocked and too touched 😢

😭😭

After he said his vows again, Ahpei asked if I remember mine and I was like.. I forgot liao 😬

Wah I am such a horrible person lolol I todali cannot memorise things laaaa. But I still love you ahlao! 🤗

As we lay in bed that night, I felt so overwhelmed with all the emotions that I cried..

I don’t know why but sometimes when life is too perfect with ahlao, then there will be a trade off.

😭😭

Like, too many good things at happening to me and I feel that I don’t truly deserve all these.. and I get really worried and so scared that bad things will happen.

I DONT KNOW WHY BUT YA.

Too heppi also want to krai 😔 Ahpei didn’t say much but just held me and told me that he loves me.

The next morning, I stirred in my sleep but I felt Ahpei get out of bed to prepare to go to work. He came back and hugged me from the back and we lay like that for a while.

The next time I woke up, it was 1030am already and I was so sed to find Ahpei’s side of the bed empty!! 😭

I knew he left for work without waking me cos he sked I tired and wanted to lemme sleep more but then I also wished he woke me so I could hug and kiss him goodbye even though I am half asleep!! 😩

I hate the feeling of not saying bye to him and I was so upset with myself for concussing sighhh. And also the fact that my ahlao left without waking me to say bye 😔

Carried on with my day after leaving Ahpei’s house cos I was meeting my folks for lunch! They are bringing me to dim sum hehe 😍

Long story short, we ordered a lot again lol. Baba had a $100 off voucher (without minimum spending somemore!!) for Tien Court so that’s where we were haha.

Food was pretty good but a bit pricy! We still paid $98 after $100 off leh! Granted taxes are quite a bit but ya 😅

This was the star dish and also the most expensive one at almost $40 for 6 skewers if prawn & scallops with black truffle sauce.

The seafood was really fresh and gud though the truffle can be stronger haha.

I also had a mini orhnee birthday kek haha. Thank you baba mama for the birthday treat! I really really enjoyed the fud very much 🤗

And thank you bringing me up so well, always feeding me with all the delicious fud until I go TAF Club 😂😂

Jokes aside, thank you for being the best parents to me and supporting my dreams so I can be who I am today 🙆🏻‍♀️❤️ @3gmum @kaimeng

Came home to rest for a bit after lunch before heading downstairs for a swim cos I am too guilty lol. Plus the weather was so hot I needed to cool off!

Somemore got reunion dinner later that night!😆

Who else hates post-swim hair?! 🙋🏻‍♀️ Mega tangled I had to condition twice lolol.

Took some time to give my phat body some love since it’s my birthday and it’s about time I love myself more…. 🙃

I mean I could stand like that and pretend I’m rather slim.. and convince myself that the shadow lines are actually my long-lost abs… but I know that would be lying to myself la 💁🏻‍♀️

Turning 29 and into my last year before I turn 30 (wtf I thought I was 15?? Why time fly so fast 😪), I want to embrace my body and even it’s flaws.

So for the first time ever, say hi to my rolls! 👋🏼

No I do not have abs (not even ab shadows) but yes imma strut around in a 2 piece swimsuit anyway!!

No I am not Pooh bear but imma rock a crop top anyway!!!! 🙌🏼

No I am not saying it’s okay to be overweight/unhealthy (let’s not get there) in fact I encourage y’all to eat right as much as possible and exercise to reach you whatever body/health goals.

I know it’s hard just look at me lolol but we can all TRY 😌

But I guess I just wanna come to terms with MYSELF and MY BODY and accept myself more 🙂

Just a day ago I was indulging in some low self esteem shit and these thoughts are really poisonous yet sometimes I really cannot halp myself la 😑

But regardless of how shitty I feel, I am thankful for an ever encouraging ahlao who ALWAYS assures me that I’m fine, and more than enough 😩❤️

Even though I still gajiao his spelling 😂

So ya you girls out there please, love your rolls and imperfections cos no matter what you are perfect in your own way.

YOU ARE STILL BEAUTIFUL GERRR! 🙆🏻‍♀️

All showered and ready for 团圆饭! 🍚

Grabbed my 阿狗狗 for a picture before leaving the house hehe. He looks like a puppy zomg 😭 Too cuteeeeee.

Lohei! 🎉

Had ours at Keng Eng Kee this year and the place was bursting with people on a Monday night!!

Food was really nubbad but skip the roast chicken cos it was so dry for both our tables sigh.

The rest were all bagus, especially the sotong youtiao hehe 🤤

Ahlec drove us (sisters & ahlao) home after dinner cos Ahpei parked his car at my place before grabbing over!

I thought why he so weird cannot drive straight to our dinner place.

But what I didn’t know was, Nya Nya tasked him to get a birthday kek for me so he had to drop it off at home!

Came home to yet another surprise 😭😭

Thank you for rushing around to get the kek & thank you mala for the surprise :’)

Just a small slice since we were alr bursting from dinner! So all of us (including our helper Nilar) shared this slice HAHAHAHA 😂

One slice divide into 8 sia huat ah 🙌🏼

Ahpei looks so dark here but all he did was spend one afternoon under the sun lolol.

HAHAHAHA GUGUBIE 🤣🤣

He starts barking every time we sing a birthday song I don’t know why!! Is it want to sing for me?? 🐶💕

It’s like he’s trying he’s hardest to sing a song for me wholeheartedly BAHAHA he is too cute 😂

I wish everyone can be heppi 🎂

And the annual ‘red egg ceremony’ where Nya Nya rolls the egg over our face and says suspicious things hehehehe 😁

Last part was Ahpei disturbing saying she should crack the egg on my forehead lol zbj 😅

Thank you for everything, my wonderful family 🙆🏻‍♀️❤️

We were all chatting when ahlao suddenly clenched his fist over my hand and told me to guess what’s inside.

👩🏻 What. Don’t gajiao me.

👦🏻 Guess what it is!!

👩🏻 Nu.

👦🏻 Guessssss.

👩🏻 Lizard.

👦🏻 Nuuu.

👩🏻 What is it!!

👦🏻 Guess la!!

👩🏻 My birthday present.

👦🏻 Correct!

👩🏻 And it is air. *still thinking he’s gonna gajiao me*

But ahlao slowly released 12 saga seeds into my palm :’)))

Not enough chairs so ahlao invited me to sit on his lap kiki. I’m not even cotton wool but he carries all of my weight readily 🤗

😂😂😂

So sun burnt la sia! We really is 黑白配 now 😁

Guess who texted me too! All the way from Philippines 💕💕

Boss took care of me since I was a baby until I was 22, before she went back to join her family. She literally gave up her youth and family time for all of us laaa 😭

She’s coming back to visit us this March and also to attend Ling’s wedding! I KENT WAIT for her to meet my ahlao!! 😍

She used to disturb me by calling me bakulaw cos of my size and she predicted me marrying an angmoh cos they like bigger girls 😅😂

BUT I MARRIED AHLAO OK!!

Jokes aside I really can’t wait for our reunion with her. She’s really like half our mother and we really miss her so so much! Really glad that her health checkup went well so her doctor let her travel :))

Boss is getting on in years already and I’m just so thankful to be able to see her in person again 😌🙏🏼

It was almost midnight already when I kissed my baby rat goodbye cos I was gonna stay over at ahlao’s place one more day before returning to work 😁

We planned to watch Downsizing while chilling in bed but by the time we reached home, we were both too tired for anything and ended up choosing to sleep instead lolol 老人 🤦🏻‍♀️

Well so that sums up my very long birthday recap! If you read till here, THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart 😌

Thank you for the well wishes and comments too guys! It felt so gud to be writing again :’)

I’ll really miss dayre if it’s gone but I hope we stay connected in every other way ok! ❤️

Thank you for sharing my highs and lows, watching me grow and get married. Legit.

Love,
missgoob.

Unexpected last post lol 🌚

Motivation to work harder this weekend. And the next couple months. Schedule’s looking cray but it’s okay cos..

WE. ARE. GOING. TO.

BALI!! 🙌🏼

It’s like a dream come true cos I’ve ALWAYS wanted to bring Ahpei around Bali; I fell in love with the place the last time I was there.

It’s just so chill 😌

After we booked our flights and stay the night before, I was so excited I couldn’t sleep. The whole day at work I couldn’t take my mind off our trip too 😅 SO EXCITES.

Best thing is, we are taking SQ this time cos it was actually cheaper than Scoot after adding on baggage allowance wtf. So weird.

Bestest thing is, Ahpei redeemed his credit card miles so we didn’t have to fork out a single cent for the air tickets!

SCORE PLEASE!!

Xiexie ahlao for the perks 🤑🤗🤩

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When it’s birthday month..

.. and you lucky bij 😆

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Ok so dayre is saying goodbye.. I guess this day would come sooner or later 🤷🏻‍♀️

As a fellow business owner, albeit on a much smaller scale, 我了解, things that don’t make money must go. No one wants to work their ass off but still lose money.

But let’s all 饮水思源 ok, still be thankful for all the good times here. And that wouldn’t be possible without the dayre team (I don’t know who you are but thank you 😌🙏🏼) then and now, for working hard to keep dayre going.. until 28 Feb that is.

And to the editor who picked me, I don’t know who, and I don’t know why, but thank you 🙂

Shoutout to all the amazing & entertaining writers I’ve had the honour to follow (or more like stalk):

@jojobeans jiejie – you are dog angel and I will always be inspired by your kind heart & be nice to animals 😇

@joycesayshello – fellow 老板娘 turned friend who somehow managed to 下毒 and make me start collecting flowy pants I hate you.

I am kidding I love you ZLNN 🤗

Forever thankful our paths crossed that very night in red dot when we both realised how similar our love stories with ZL and Ahpei unfolded 😂

@jazreeltan – also fellow 老板娘 turned friend who inspires me to become a good wifey and domestic goddess. Every time I’m too lazy to wake up when Ahpei leaves for work, the image of you waving by the window haunts me so much that I drag myself to the door to wave goodbye to my ahlao.

Just kidding I love you too LTT 🙆🏻‍♀️

@theterencelee – the cool doctor who is so diva it hurts. I LOVE your confidence and your candid writing and I respect you for saving lives 🤩 Please continue shopping too.

@brenwho – my cruise trip room mate who laosai-ed the whole time! I only act nice and tolerate your shit (pun todali intended) cos you’re cute lor 🙄 And you’re on this list cos of bambuu and micat please don’t feel too honoured.

I’m kidding thanks for being my friend 😿 – you have cat emoji cos you special and I will really miss micat!! 😭😭

@sandydandy – also another writer who inspires me to stay contented and forever be thankful for my loved ones. I’m really glad we became friends cos I feel so lucky to be able to hang out with you and hear your infectious laughter LIVE! 🤣

@awriann – whom I only recently followed, but zomg I think she is another level of 搞笑!! I hope you and 👖 live happily ever after 😁

@braintango – one more fellow 老板娘 and bra queen. Also followed recently by very entertaining and thought provoking posts. I see her passion for her work BURN & I can really identify/relate. Thanks for saving big boobs 🙌🏼

And then, if I happen to be one of your favourite Dayre person, walau eh THANK YOU ALSO HOR! For reading my ramblings ☺️

If you ask me, yes I’m sad cos all the stories from 2013 will be gone (or not, if I’m hardworking enough to save them all.. but.. I’m lazy af lol), but then again, one less social media platform to manage, so… hahaha 🙃

Maybe I’ll become more efficient with one less distraction hahaha #stayingpositive

I have a dot com, but I hardly write there – maybe it’s time to! I’ll probably post more wedding/house reno/travel related stuff there 🙂

I wanted to dayre abt the our saga seed solemnisation party (cos I received pics from @joycesayshello!!) but I guess I’ll just put them on the blog so keep a lookout!! 😍

Find me at http://www.missgoob.com ok!

Guess for all the ling long ding dong dating short stories, kekspam and Gooby happenings .. they shall go straight to my memory bank 😅

Or you could still kaypoh on IG @missgoob 🤗

Thanks for the journey my friends! It has been an amazing few years on here, documenting big stories about LIFE AND LOVE, to small stories like greasy hair and laosai..

Thankful for all the laughter and tears I got from reading all your posts too, but well the time has come but try not to be so sad la! 🙆🏻‍♀️❤️

Dayre die liao, but social media will not die. And I will always be this missgoob, just myself, regardless of platform. I’m sure there are other ways we can connect ok! 🤩

Leaving this video here (is it closing ceremony) so y’all can remember me as the sexy cow who wears XL and is still bomb!!! 💁🏻‍♀️ #hairflip

LOVE YALL XX 💋

Now lemme go draft my first blog post in a long while now 😂

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Just when I said one less distraction.. why y’all make me do dis 🤣🤣